Timeless "Mob Wife" Glamour
Step into 1980s Bensonhurst, Brooklyn on a Friday afternoon. Walking past the local Italian cafe, you can’t ignore the trio of women sitting at a table outside. One is draped in a fierce leopard fur coat, another wearing a gold nameplate necklace that lights up the block, and a third with sunglasses practically covering her entire face. Their conversation is accentuated by their bouncy curls and French manicures, proudly displayed as they talk with their hands. These women make a statement with every gesture.
The trending “Mob Wife” aesthetic might seem like a recent phenomenon but for those raised in Italian-American households and neighborhoods, specifically in New York or New Jersey, it’s a familiar and ingrained style. This aesthetic was seen early through the lens of pop culture in 1999 with the airing of the HBO series, The Sopranos, which delved into the lives of an Italian-American mobster family. The characters elevated this style into a symbol of status, wearing diamonds, gold chains, fur, and luxury designer pieces. Far from the realm of “quiet luxury” and minimalism, Mob Wife style is loud and bold, embracing a glamorous lifestyle. It reflects not just a fashion choice but the embodiment of a certain attitude.
Even within the confines of their home, mob wives maintain an undeniable fierceness. You won’t catch them lounging in athleisure; instead, they opt for a snug velour tracksuit or luxurious silk robe. When it comes to their day-to-day appearance, the more highlights in their hair, the better. The same goes for makeup – a smokey eye and a bold lip are absolute necessities.
Fashion enthusiasts have embraced this aesthetic well before the ever-changing micro-trends of TikTok. The Instagram account @sopranosstyle began its posts back in 2016, each dedicated to the distinct outfits of The Sopranos characters, celebrating the Mob Wife style, as well as capturing the essence of Italian mobsters who were frequently seen in white tanks and gold chains.
New Jersey native, Lyndsi Beal, 22, opens up about her experience growing up in the state, reminiscing on watching The Real Housewives of New Jersey and The Sopranos with her mom. This type of lifestyle always intrigued her, especially since her parents had several Italian friends who invited them over for parties and gatherings. Reflecting on those moments, she says, “I would always see the chic Italian trends. The big fur coats were always on in the winter, and a tray of rainbow or pignoli cookies was probably in their hands!”
This style aligns with the personal empowerment and self-expression of these women. The Mob Wife's attitude goes hand-in-hand with their external appearance. Lyndsi remarks, “We all know what the mob was notorious for, and that being said I think the women had to embody this ‘tough as nails attitude.’ Their aura is super intimidating and honestly fierce.” The Mob Wife, characterized by resilience and life experience, remains unshaken by challenges. “However, inside they usually are some of the sweetest most nurturing women…She’s got a good heart, but the second you cross her – it’s over,” Lyndsi notes.
This translates to the fashion realm with the inclusion of striking statement pieces, such as always carrying a designer bag and wearing bold, sophisticated jewelry. Lyndsi explains, “You look at her and know she’s expensive. She’s also not so worried about looking super clean cut, she will rock a dark sultry eye and quickly put on a red lip without looking in the mirror.” It all circles back to the confidence these women radiate. The statement pieces resemble the power and influence they and their families possess.
Lyndsi suggests that those looking to implement this style into their wardrobe start gradually, suggesting options like leopard print in heels or a purse to build confidence. Emphasizing the significance of the color red, she notes it is naturally sexy and sultry, embodying a sense of power. In terms of essentials, she highlights pinstripes, lace, gold, dark colors, and fur as key elements to add to your closet. Someone with a Mob Wife mentality doesn’t worry about being overdressed; they will always wear heels and strategically accessorize to elevate an ordinary outfit.
In the pursuit of embracing this aesthetic, remember, you know you look good without anyone having to remind you. Your exuding confidence is a testament to your inherent style, serving as a mirror reflecting both outer elegance and inner strength.